Relationship and misery

We spend our whole lives seeking meaningful relationships. Yet, it is relationships which cause us most suffering. It is our relationships that we are most attached to. It is here that most of our energies are directed. And it is here that most of our troubles are caused. There is nothing which causes so much misery as relationships. To be attached to relationships will cause nothing but suffering. Avoiding relationships will cause even more suffering. The best course therefore is to allow relationships to arise. No need to get attached or seek to avoid. Just remember that in every relationships, it is just a role that you are playing. You are not your role. You have absolutely nothing to gain or lose from relationships. Ultimately all relationships are illusory. No point being attached and giving over too much power to these issues.

When caught in the grip of relationship, remember that these are all just passing shows and have absolutely nothing to do with what you are. Caring too much breeds only misery. This includes approval by others. Caring about others approval or criticism is a complete waste of time. Be free from the bonds of relationship. Be free from the desire to avoid relationships as well. All your relationships are illusory. Consciousness alone exists.